SDM: Sweet & Discreet Meet

In-app purchases
2.9
1.22K reviews
5L+
Downloads
Content rating
USK: Ages 18+
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About this app

SDM - Find genuine connections in your city! Join our elite dating community, with more than 6 million like-minded members.

SDM is an exclusive elite dating app designed to help elite and attractive singles to find love, passion, and adventure in life. We provide a fun and welcoming dating community based on respect and inclusion for our members to explore! No matter you're looking to meet new friends, chat with strangers, expand your mind and experiences, or find a luxury lifestyle, SDM dating app is definitely your perfect choice.

Connect and vibe on multiple levels.

SDM dating app provides an easy way to meet new people, find dates, and explore possibilities and opportunities you've ever wanted. Everyone here is looking for genuine relationships, friendships, and true love. You can find educated people who can broaden your horizons with wisdom, insight, and life experience. You can also meet fun, outgoing, respectful singles with high standards and clear boundaries. At SDM, we value genuine connections and we work hard to bring people together who will appreciate and respect each other. We believe that strong relationships start with mutual understanding and common ground. With that in mind, we create a safe and supportive environment where you can get to know someone before taking things to the next level.

Discover our amazing features

- Search for local singles with advanced filters
- Browse thousands of local profiles
- Send unlimited free winks to break the ice
- Check others' latest activities
- Chat with new friends anonymously
- Reply to messages from others for free
- Match with verified members

SDM makes dating easier and safer

SDM dating app is popular all over the world, whether you are from the United States, the United Kingdom, Canada, Australia, Europe, Asia, or other places in the world, you can find your ideal match on SDM. Our mission is to make elite dating in your city as easy, fun, and safe as it can be! Protecting your security and privacy is our top priority. We offer free profile verification to make sure you're dating a real person. Our smart matching system delivers compatible partner suggestions in line with your personal search preferences, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

So, what are you waiting for? Download our elite dating app and start connecting with quality singles from all over the world. With SDM dating app, you’re never alone!
Updated on
11 Nov 2025

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
No data shared with third parties
Learn more about how developers declare sharing
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 4 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

2.9
1.19K reviews
Michael Franzese
1 November 2025
Absolutely avoid at all costs. I paid for the premium membership off the jump, and I'm not catfishing, literally sent them 4 different pictures. They kept giving me the run around about verifying me. They responded with about a paragraph of instructions for me to do to get verified, meanwhile I'm paying them the $54 a month. I'm disputing the charge for not actually receiving any service, seeking is a lot more reliable.
25 people found this review helpful
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SDM Lifestyle
3 November 2025
Sorry for the inconvenience with photo verification. Please send details of your failed attempt to support@sdm.dating so we can help. We are dedicated to building a verified and secure community. Paid features help verify members and improve the user's experience. Thank you for understanding.
Jon Stanford
19 September 2025
Might be the only dating app in existence that charges to message a mutual match. Worse still, even if you pay to be able to send the message unless the other party has paid, they wont be able to read your message. As that example clear shows, it's just a poorly executed scam site with low user counts ( ghee i wonder why ) claiming to be premium
48 people found this review helpful
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SDM Lifestyle
22 September 2025
We’re sorry for your frustration. Messaging is a premium feature to ensure safety and quality interactions. We’ll share your feedback with our team. Please reach out at support@sdm.dating so we can review your concerns directly.
SidMackPhotography
7 October 2025
I like that the app is for people who want to get straight to the point but I am really not fond of the fact that even after you match with someone you can't even message them without buying a premium account or unless the person you match with has a premium account.
9 people found this review helpful
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SDM Lifestyle
15 October 2025
With every new app version we are introducing new features and improving existing ones. We are sure that your feedback will only help us improve further.

What's new

We pride ourselves on providing a user experience that is fluid and efficient. We frequently update our app to make sure you can participate in high quality dating.
Got feedback? We'd love to hear it. We consider all feedback to provide the best possible dating app. We appreciate your ongoing support.